Day 7: Be patient through all the lessons today.

As all parents know nothing can ruin your day more than when we are in such a rush or caught up with life that we lose our patience with our kids.  When we are impatient we create an environment for our kids to feel anxious, frustrated, and unworthy of our time.  Some days school (when I say school I mean the sit down instruction) seems rushed and thrown into our daily schedule.  Wednesdays especially when I spend my morning in meetings, we eat lunch, get chores done, prepare and go to Taekwondo, get ready for church/Awana, then we always eat out on Wednesday nights so it is bedtime when we get home!!  So you can see how we rush school into our schedule.

On these busy days when we do the sit down work it is easy to become impatient when G man isn't taking it serious.  Little miss can easily throw a wrench in the day if her school play isn't up to her expectations that day.  Yesterday we started out our busy day and when it came time to do the sit down work and neither child was in the mood.  Instead of forcing school and making it very unproductive and no fun we changed our day.  We had a Love of Math day instead.  G man picked out numbers in the different places we were and then practiced counting to that number.  He got so wrapped up in what numbers have to do with our lives and he started asking about ages, height, and weight!!  Little miss explained to him that he was five (true), she was four (false she is 2), and Mommy is five (obviously false!)  G man corrects her and says Mommy is 6 and a half!!  He asked Little miss about how much she weighed which of course she responded with her favorite number four again.  What do you think Mommy weights? Oh why would I ask that and then G man says the worse thing ever... "I can't count that big!!"

Luckily homeschool is more than curriculum and school work.  When we have rough days or school doesn't happen that day we are still ok.  Learning takes place in unlikely places and all the time.  My personality wants everything to be black and white and fit nicely into a schedule but life just doesn't work that way!  My kids don't work that way!

Am I doing enough?

Day 6: Breath deep and relax, your kids are just fine.

After homeschool convention last weekend I came back and looked over our curriculum choices for next year.  I rewrote our schedule for the school day.  I looked over what subjects were being taught.  I then looked over the piles and piles of laundry and continued worrying about school.  Am I including enough subjects? What about a foreign language? Should I start something more structured with Little miss?  Keep in mind my kids are only 5 and 2!!  I was making myself crazy then I remembered something that happened the week before.

Sitting in the school room going over G man's math paper when Little miss asks for the crayon box.  I handed her the box and made sure she had a color book (I learned my lesson after her and I had to clean marker and crayon off the walls!) and went back to working with G man.  As we are setting up the counting blocks to again work on simple addition I hear Little miss' sweet little voice sing saying her color words.  I look over and she is saying the right word to the right color.  I was floored!  I haven't worked on colors hardly at all this year!  G man knows his colors so we talk about them briefly here and there.  To make sure it isn't a fluke I hold up a yellow crayon and say, "What color is this?"  She gives me the funniest look and says yellow.  I go on with pink, red, green, blue, purple, and orange to which she got them all right except orange!!!  What!?!?!?  When did this happen?  Who taught her that? God reminds me daily that I am doing what He called me to do with my children and the only explanation for my children learning when their was no teaching is that He is in control of our homeschool.

As I look back on that incident many more come to mind.  I then rewrote everything again a little less stressed out about it this time!  I also answered my own questions from above.  I am including enough subjects and most of them are intertwined. (My fellow USAO graduates know why I refuse to use the word interdisciplinary.) I should start a foreign language because G man is already convince he speaks French because he knows one term... cheese omelet.  Little miss needs structure of a daily schedule and she is absorbing more than I could imagine.  

The speaker at the convention opening was Michael Smith from the HSLDA was amazing and explained his and his wife's journey to becoming a homeschool family.  He mentioned a phrase that I have heard many times before but didn't hold onto until this time.  He said that we are raising them for Heaven not Harvard and their world view and future salvation should be our main concern because God will fill in the gaps.  He has already proved that to us in our schooling journey.

It all starts with prayer!

Day 5: Pray for your homeschool.

It took a lot of prayer and time for us to decide to homeschool.  One thing that I am very good at is to pray for my kids future but I don't (regularly) include homeschool in that prayer.  I generally pray for their future salvation, spouse, purity, faith, and character in general.  I stopped last night and just prayed for our homeschool.  Some things that came up were each child and their needs in our schooling, our upcoming decision on curriculum, my organization, my husband's role and how it is going to be changing this next school year with music lessons being thrown in.  So the first part of my prayer is about change.  This year of homeschooling went better then I could have imagined but change is coming with a new grade level coming up.  I am excited about this change and what all that means for our family.

I then prayed thanksgiving to God.  Thanking Him for the opportunity to do this!  This wasn't at all in my mind and then God showed us both that we needed to do this and then He provided a way for us to and all we had to do was trust.  I thanked Him that my husband was on board 100% with me and that we don't face much opposition from family and friends.  (We are very lucky!) I also thanked Him that my kids are happy.  G man is thriving and doing well and loving the adventures we have.  Little miss loves being in the middle of everything and is absorbing so much.  I also thanked God for surrounding us with a strong support of friends that are homeschooling within our church and we also have friends that we look up to that we no longer live by but are there for us.  I am also thankful that homeschool is more than curriculum and schedules.  Homeschool is the adventures we have getting lost in the car.  (G man has an AMAZING sense of direction!) We learn by playing, seeing, hiking, shopping, and so much more.  Our family is very close and open and we are growing closer day by day.  I am so thankful for what I have and what all God has blessed us with.  I ended this prayer the same way I end most begging God to continue to pour out His blessings on us but to give us strength when we need it or face opposition.

Squeezing in 2 days in one post!

Day 3: Start on time and stay on schedule all day.

I have accepted that my family runs off schedule and late to everything no matter how hard we try.  That being said it was a while before I could post this blog because we tried hard to stay on schedule!  Well we did it yesterday!!  We made all of our morning runs, went to the gym, hit the library for story time (I was a little sweaty but no one seemed to mind) then back home and in full school mode!  G man started off strong with some picture drawing in his journal about our butterfly hatching, then on to reading/phonics, then we of course took a scheduled break because Little miss has a rough time without a game or puzzle break!  After regrouping with some calendar time and songs he is ready for math where he rocked some simple subtraction!!!  Lastly we return to our butterflies where we get to do a cut/color/paste activity over the life-cycle.

 (We are impatiently waiting to see our butterflies!)


Whew... we were busy busy busy!!  We stayed on schedule, we rocked school, we tackled some chores, and we even squeezed in Mommy's full time job!! ;)  It was wonderful!!  We didn't get as much done as far as house work goes but we did better then what would have normally happened.

"Time's fun when you're having flies." (Kermit the Frog) 



Day 4: Throw the schedule out the window and just read!

That is exactly what we did.  We threw tossed a day and devoted it to reading.  We started out (after the gym) at the library.  We had the best time sitting and reading on the carpets, playing with the puppets, and enjoying the reading games on the computers.  After the library we had to go get the oil changed in my vehicle and G man took a book inside which was great because we had PLENTY of time to read while we waited.  

At the library we got a road sign ABC book which was so fun for G man while we were in the car! Carschooling at it's finest!!  He was so excited that he knew some of the words in this harder book and he could determine what the other words meant from the picture on the sign.  My favorite was the sign with the fire truck on it on the F page.  G man said proudly I know this word says Fire but this other one should say truck but it starts with "s" instead.  I had to glance back at the next stop to see that it read Fire Station.  

Little miss picked out a board book, as usual, at the library but when we got home and started looking at it we realized it was a Braille book.  We had the best time playing with it and reading the words and touching the bumps.  G man loved learning about it!  We had time for this teachable moment because we had no schedule we were following.  

Little miss reading to her baby doll!!!